1. Sex doesn’t keep a man, if you like, turn 360% on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn’t notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.
2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men don’t settle down with fake women who love money.
3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them.
4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.
5. Being sexy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.
6. Sex can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, sex is a product of love, love is not a product of sex.
7. Sex can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime.
8. There are some things that money just can’t buy like manners, moral and integrity.
9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you.
✍✍ *FOOD FOR THOUGHT* 📝📝
“`1. 👉No matter how beautiful and handsome you’re just remember Baboon and Gorillas also attract tourists .
2.👉No matter how big and strong you are, you will not carry yourself to your Grave .
3.👉No matter how tall you are, you can never see tomorrow.
4.👉No matter how Light Skinned you are, you will always need light in Darkness ✌Take Caution ✌
5.👉No matter how Rich and many Cars you have, you will always Walk to Bed
Take Life Easy, Life is short.
WHAT A LIFE WE LIVE!
Have you taken note of the CO-INCIDENCE OF LIFE:
1. CHURCH has 6 letters so does MOSQUE.
2. BIBLE has 5 letters so does QURAN.
3. LIFE has 4 letters so does DEAD.
4. HATE has 4 letters, so does LOVE.
5. ENEMIES has 7 letters, so does FRIENDS.
6. LYING has 5 letters, so does TRUTH.
7. HURT has 4 letters, so does HEAL.
8. NEGATIVE has 8 letters, so does POSITIVE.
9. FAILURE has 7 letters, so does SUCCESS.
10. BELOW has 5 letters, so does ABOVE.
11. CRY has 3 letters so does JOY.
12. ANGER has 5 letters, so does HAPPY.
13. RIGHT has 5 letters, so does WRONG.
14. RICH has 4 letters, so does POOR.
15. FAIL has 4 letters, so does PASS.
16. KNOWLEDGE has 9 letters, so does IGNORANCE.
Are they all by Coincidence? We should choose wisely, this means LIFE is like a double-edged sword.
If you think it is your alarm clock that woke you up this morning, try putting it beside a dead body and you will realise that it is the grace of God that woke you up. If you are grateful to God, forward this to all your friends to inform them that it is JUST BY THE GRACE OF GOD
A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER.
A GOOD MOTHER GIVE BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE ONE EMULATE THESE STEPS BELOW
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other’s keeper.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret
them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home.
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband’s right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It’s very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty.
11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don’t do that.
14). Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don’t forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.
21). Don’t be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn’t even know that her body needs a bath.
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
26). Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28) A confrontational wife, can never keep a good husband and her home, she will be grooming irresponsible daughters without manners.
29) A woman who cannot manage her children, home and husband is a complete failure in life no matter her achievements.
30) A wise woman honors her husband, and respect him, in turn the husband will cherish her and love her dearly – it will be natural. Husband is a beautiful gift from God, no woman can stay without a husband. No good man on earth can tolerate a confrontational and argumentative wife except they have lost their value and become less of a real man.
31). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
32). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
33). A prayerful wife is very wise and intelligent and she is a better equipped wife, pray always for your husband and family. Conquer all your challenges and problems with prayers, only God can solve our problems – not parent, not pastors, not anybody but, only you and God.
Send it to every woman you know. You never know whose marriage you are about to save. And to every man so that the women in their lives can be better guided.
The ‘Sponsor’ phenomenon has made it’s mark and it’s become undeniable.
It’s now a part of life,an acceptable demon and a reality we can’t run away from.
College girls are hooking up with sponsors left right and centre. Even college dropouts,who found better callings than slaving in a Business Management class for three years,have decided to let down their inhibitions and let richer,much older men take control of their lives.
Of late,it’s all about the Benjamins. And if you can pay her house rent (in a cosy neighborhood), afford her crazy Uber expenses,take her to the ritziest and glossiest joints in town,drown her in Moet Chandons and other champagnes,you can have her. All for yourself. One shot at a time.
Prostitution has gone hi-tech and today,all you need to do is slide in the DM,declare your worth,produce your networth,blather on and on and you’ve netted yourself the sexiest little damsel in College.
You could be the crappiest piece of garbage in bed,you could have a belly the size of a small tank,you could look like a Malaysian drug addict… But if you’ve got the right amount of money,right kind of car,right extent of generosity,you’re good to go.
And you can bag any girl you want. Long as she’ll never have to struggle ever again…
Unfortunately,aged white men,who love whiling time away at swanky Karen Gardens,smoking on a cigar and watching their old lives ebb away,can’t perform in bed as good as that chunky campus dude quite can.
I mean,he’s 86. Old. Decaying. And probably suffering from dementia.
He’s a grandfather,weakly,oft-tired and (waaay) past his prime.
But he’s also staggeringly wealthy. And can afford to finance your lifestyle for the next decade.
And that’s where the problem comes in.
Nothing comes for free. And for every house rent,every Jimmy Choo shoe,every night out at Kiza Lounge,sex must follow thereafter whether you like it or not… Every thing in this world has a pay my dear sister… Which is what really sucks for college girls who have to sleep with these old geezers in exchange for m oney.
Just be confident of what God has given you… You’ve been ordained and destined for a purpose in this sojourning life my dia siz… Why glutonously yank and yearn for those materialism from an 87 old foggy with exachange of your coochie
Are you a subject or an object…..?
Open your eyes and see the other side of the life…
Fifty percent of your relationship or marital success, happiness and joy depends on the kind of person you choose to date or marry. The remaining fifty percent depends on the kind of person you are and how you handle your relationship. Therefore making the choice of the right partner is something every unmarried person shouldn’t take lightly since it will have a significant impact on your life.
People need to understand the difference between a “right partner” and a “perfect partner”. In reality there’s nothing like a perfect partner. “Perfect partner” is the ideal man or woman everyone desires to date or marry but unfortunately they are not in existence. What we have is a right partner, who is not perfect but tries his or her best to get along with you and build the wonderful relationship you all desire. Most people break relationships with their “right partners” because of some few faults and that they want a “perfect partner” who will always make them happy without having any challenges or issues with them. Unfortunately, they get another person who is just like the one they broke up with or worse than the their ex.
Let me share with you signs to inform you that a person is a right partner for you or not.
1) THE PERSON LOVES GOD
This is the most important sign you will see in a right partner. He or she loves God and wants to live for Him. I’m not talking about someone who sings, preaches, leads prayers or active in church activities, no. Those things are gifts and talents and has nothing to do with a person’s love for God. I’m talking about someone who has the desire to live God’s word in his or her life and apply the word in everything he or she does. With such a person he or she is very mindful of the way he or she treats other people. Because it’s impossible for someone to truly love God and treat his or her partner badly. It’s impossible.
2) SOMEONE WHO TRULY LOVES YOU
Marriage is serious journey that you will need someone who truly loves you for who you are and not what you have or what he or she will get from you. If the person loves you only for your looks, money and sex then I’m sorry you are in a very big trouble because a time will come in the relationship that those things wouldn’t count again and then the relationship will crumble. A right partner will know your strength, weakness, health status, past, dreams, fears, future dreams and aspirations will will still accept and love you just as you are. This is one important reason I tell singles to date a person for at least two to three years when you have both gone through the seasons of life and he or she has seen your weaknesses and most things about you then he or she will decide whether he or she can truly accept and love you the way that you are.
3) COMMON VIRTUES, VALUES AND BELIEFS
Don’t ever try a relationship with someone who doesn’t share your virtues, values or beliefs. If not the relationship will not work. The right partner will have to share in your virtues, values and beliefs. If you believe in no marriage no sex, the right partner also shares in that believe. If you value honesty, hard work, faith, faithfulness, sincerity and truth, the right partner will also share in similar values and virtues. Dating or marrying someone who doesn’t share in positive values, virtues and beliefs is like setting up yourself to endure a lot of troubles. Many people you see them going through hell in their relationships and marriages are those who ignore the importance of virtues, values and beliefs. As a Christian you date and marry someone who is also a Christian and share in the same belief with you.
4) SOMEONE WHO KNOWS WHAT RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE IS
It’s not everyone you love that has any knowledge of relationship or marriage. Some people just want to have sex and fun and that is what they know relationship and marriage to be. Their understanding of relationship and marriage is distorted by the world view and it’s dangerous to commit your life to them. A right partner knows that a dating relationship provides the platform to study, asses and know whether the person they are dating or they themselves are fit for marriage and not a platform to experiment with sex. Therefore, before you commit to date or marry someone try and know his or her view on it. If the person thinks divorce is the alternative when things get tough in the marriage then I’m sorry he or she is not fit to be in marriage with you. Its a matter of shaping up or shipping out.
5) SOMEONE WITH CHARACTER
When you marry, you are going to live with someone’s character all the days of your life. If the character is bad or negative then expect him or her to be negative or bad towards you because that is the kind of person he or she is. Keep in mind that outward appearance and looks have nothing to do with the success of your relationship or marriage but rather the kind of person he or she is. Do not date a person with the hope of changing them later in marriage. A leopard does not shade its spots. The person can be very beautiful but if the character is bad then you will have a very bad relationship. Ask yourself why some men have to divorce their beautiful wives or why some men have to break up with very beautiful ladies of all standard? Because they have the beauty but not the character. Beauty doesn’t make relationship work it’s character that does. Fall in love with the soul and not the face.
6) SOMEONE WHO SHARES IN YOUR ASPIRATIONS AND DREAMS
The right person comes to help and assist you bring out the best in you and fulfill your God given destiny. If the person doesn’t share in your passions, aspirations or dreams then it will be impossible for the person to take you far because along the way he or she will dislike what you do and may even fight against you for pursuing them. Some people have killed their dreams because they dated and married a person who didn’t support or like the things they are interested in. If someone truly loves you he or she will also love the things you love and cherish. If he/she loves you then your success will be his/her success.
7) SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS YOU
It’s not everyone who can understand you for the things you do or say. It’s only few and a right partner falls into that last group. He or she will understand you and not abuse you because of who you are. He or she will make it their desire to know you more in order to understand you and live with you. Dating or marrying someone who doesn’t understand who you are and temperament will bring a lot of challenges into the relationship. The more your partner understands you the more he or she appreciates you and accepts you just as you are. Whilst if he or she doesn’t understand you, will try to accuse, complain or insult you which will make you unhappy in the relationship.
With these seven signs you will not need a prophet or an angel to come and tell you whether a particular person is a right partner or not. By the person’s fruits you will be able to determine whether the person is right for you or not. I mean “utawajua kwa matunda yao”.
BY THEIR FRUITS YOU WILL KNOW WHETHER HE OR SHE IS THE RIGHT ONE OR NOT.
Sometimes when I look at certain beautiful christian ladies and the kind of guys they give their love to, I wonder why they do that to their own disadvantage. They give their love to someone who doesn’t qualify to handle them and then later they abuse and mishandle them. If your relationships keep not working the way you want it to, then it clearly means you have been giving your love to the wrong people. And you can’t date the wrong people and have the right relationship.
For some guys I don’t know what they look out for in some ladies before giving them their love and investment. In fact, some ladies don’t qualify to even be in a relationship not even to talk of marriage. The only thing they can provide as long as dating relationship or marriage is concerned is sex and nothing more. To them relationship is all about sex, fun, makeups, shopping, outing and therefore comes into the relationship to distribute sex and if you are not fortunate she will also be giving other men sex beside you her partner.
Besides the gift of life God has given to everyone of us, another important thing He gave us is our love. It’s the most precious thing we need to guard with wisdom and discretion not to give it to any irresponsible man or woman. The truth is some people are like ‘pigs’ and ‘dogs’. If you date a ‘pig’ he or she will not value your love. They will trample on your love, take you for granted, abuse you and then later ignore you. That is their character and nature. Jesus rightly advised in Matthew 7:6 “Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and then turn and tear you to pieces”. Such people are not willing to change or improve in order to work with you to build any meaningful relationship. They don’t know anything about meaningful relationship and therefore have no desire to build one. Therefore, try as much as possible to ignore every ‘pig’ that will come your way.
Some people who also don’t deserve your love are the ‘dogs’. All that they are interested in the relationship is sex. If you are a lady, he will propose to you with the intention of sleeping with you and as soon as he gets the sex he leaves you and look for another lady he can continue his sexual conquest on. Such people only come just to have an affair with you and nothing more. With such people as soon as they start dating you, they will be demanding for sex and will threaten to break the relationship if you don’t give them sex. And funny enough as soon as you give them the sex and they are fed up with you then they will finally leave you.
Until young men and women learn to give their love to the right people it will be impossible for them to enjoy the kind of relationship or marriage they want. You need to understand that your love is your greatest asset when it comes to relationship and marriage which you can’t afford to give to any irresponsible person to mishandle it then later leave you in frustration and hurts. 50% of your relationship or marital success depends on the kind of person you give your heart to and the remaining 50% depends on you.
As I end, I want to ask you; what are the kind of people you give your love to? Do you give it to ‘pigs’ or ‘dogs’ or to a responsible person. The truth is; you can never give your love to a responsible person and he or she will take advantage of you and then leave you frustrated and heart broken. Have in mind that God knows the right person who can handle your love without abuse or pain. Instead of following your eyes and heart rather follow God’s Spirit, values, virtues, character and beliefs and you will find your love with the right man or woman.
DON’T GIVE YOUR LOVE TO THE WRONG PEOPLE THEN LATER ASK WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM DOESN’T WORK OUT
And told him: “I’m in need of money, my mom is sick and I have no money for her treatment.”
His friend said: ” Alright my dear friend, just call me later after Devotion.”
He called him but his phone was switched off.
He kept calling over and over again, until he got tired.
And went to search for another friend who can help him with the treatment fee.
But he couldn’t find anyone who can help.
He returned back to home and found a bag of medications near his mother’s pillow and she was sleeping.
He asked his brother, the brother told him: “your friend came and collected the prescriptions and brought these medicines, he just went out not long ago”.
He smiled and with tears in his eyes he went out to look for his friend, and when he found him; he asked him : “where have u been, I have been calling you since but your phone was switched off..?”
The friend replied: “I sold my phone and bought the medications for your mom”
A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED.
Again l ask…..
*COULD THIS BE YOU?*